How to Help—When Helping Isn’t So Simple

General

by Terry Arnold One of the hardest things to deal with when someone you love is going through a crisis is that even your best intentions can miss the mark. Sometimes it’s just inexperience. Like the time I tried to help my son and daughter-in-law after their first...

Are We Doing Enough to Help You Tell Your Story?

General

This has been on my mind lately, especially as we continue to struggle to get enough submissions for Walking on Quicksand. The stories we do receive are powerful and deeply moving—but we know there are so many more out there, and we want to hear from you. During a...

My Social Security Story

Advocacy, Education, General, Research, Updates

My name is Olivia, and on November 30, 2020, at 27 years old, I was diagnosed with HER2+ stage 4 inflammatory breast cancer (IBC) with bone metastasis—just after having my baby boy. Soon after starting treatment, I learned that IBC qualifies for Social Security...

Finding Meaning in Hospitality: Reflections from a Retreat Talk

Advocacy, General

(Terry Arnold, Sunday, January 19, 2025) Happy Sunday, everyone! I’d like to share an incredible experience I had recently that was both exciting and meaningful. It all began back in October when I gave a series of talks for a group called Cross Creek West, the same...

Your voice is crucial.

Advocacy, Education

I receive messages like this every single day, and it breaks my heart. Often, we—along with well-meaning doctors—search for reasonable explanations for why a breast is swollen, even if our intentions aren’t harmful. For cat owners, it’s not uncommon to get scratched....